Sunday, 8 January 2012

condoms.

In PR class last week we were given a booklet to read called Program Planning. In it, was an article called "India Changes Attitudes on Condom Use," it was on a PR campaign encouraging men and women to not be ashamed of using or buying condoms.
It was a very successful campaign. (Below I have listed what they did to make it so successful)


Whenever I go to India I often find that talking about sex or even saying the word is still used very quietly. The ironic issue for me was that India has population of over 1 billion and you would think by now it would be an openly spoken topic. But no it isn't. It's slowly beginning to be and I am on a mini-quest as to why it wasn't examined earlier.
One of the reasons I found was, the topic of sex and condom use still has a social stigma attached to it. I also believe it to be because of our elder generations (Indian men and women) who were brought up thinking that sex should be very hush, hush.

Most women and men, especially in rural parts of India are just beginning to be educated about the topic. HIV levels are quite high in India and recently, people are acting on changing the 'hush,hush' mentality.

I can say from my own experience that protected sex was never spoken about. It is not common in the Indian culture to even talk about it. Some kids never discuss it with there parents and that has to do with there upbringings (what was spoken of and what was not).

Fortunately, television shows, friends and school taught me what 'safe sex' is, but I was much older when I took the time to learn it. I laugh to myself because I remember when I was 14 years old and I thought it took 9 months to get pregnant. That's how naive I was. Plus going to a catholic school for nine years of my life didn't really teach much on sex.
It was only when I went to a public school from grade 10-12, we learnt how to use a condom etc... (the old banana trick). It was all laughs and giggles at that age. But now looking back I am glad we were taught that.
I believe if young men and women were taught at an earlier age in India, then diseases would not be as prevalent. But yes, on a positive note it is changing for the better.


I am going to post a condom video ad. It is hilarious only because it reminds me of a 'condom' like characters who resemble care bears or Teletubbies but it does have some good stuff in it. Enjoy!


Oh and my quest still continues.





Program Planning (Condom Bindaas Bol! Campaign) 
They focused on three parts: 
1. Partnerships and Endorsements- "Famous television celebrities were recruited to record brief public service announcements to communicate the message."
2. Meetings with Editorial Boards of Major Publications- "Highlight the results of the research study about men's perceptions of condoms. Encouraging shopkeeper to increase sales by overcoming their embarrassment about selling the product to customers."
3. Use of New Media- (youtube)- "a video mailer was prepared that provided one scenario of how a shy customer is encouraged by a retailer to ask for a condom"


Condom Bindaas Bol! had a 22 percent increase in the condom market. 





Thursday, 5 January 2012

Apology.




This is a letter to those who take the time to read my blog. 

I apologize I have not taken the time to write during the holidays since it was a busy time, eating, drinking, dancing and laughing away. 

I must say it was nice to be away from social media for the time I was, only because it gave me a chance to spend quality time with family and friends face-to-face rather than on my smartphone! (Though I was told several times to get off my blackberry) 

2012  I will make it a point to keep posting. NO MATTER WHAT!!!! 


Anyways, let's talk about good reads. 

One book I'm reading right now which is so far hilarious is "On the Outside Looking Indian" - Rupinder Gill 
It's about a young South Asian woman growing up in the North American culture and how different her life was compared to her friends. It is also about the author re-living her childhood for the second time the way she wanted to in the first. 
I instantly wanted to read it because of the cover. CUTE 

The girl in the picture is the author- Rupinder Gill

I am also going to post a video of the author-Rupinder Gill and how her experience after writing this memoir has changed her life. 


"Without risk there is no reward" 




Saturday, 3 December 2011

the Rise of Indian Fashion.


Fashion in India has changed so much from the time I went there when I was 11 years old to now.The vibrant colours worn, and the intricate embroidery on every piece of clothing is magnificent. 

Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011

Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011



Designer: Ecru (Wedding Dress)
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"A focus on ornamentation. His traditional silhouettes feature intricate embroidery and stone work." - Vogue India
Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011


Wills Lifestyle India Fashion Week




Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011

Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011
Synergy One Delhi Couture Week 2011






Sunday, 27 November 2011

times are changing.

I was on one of my favorite news websites- BBC, when this article caught my eye.

Iraq gets first all-female taxis




It hit me right then and there that, yes, our world is slowly but surely changing and progressing. I think it's so important for women to grow and see their potential. I know for many years in my life, I didn't take the time for myself to realize what was important to me and what wasn't. I put other people's needs before my own. And now that I am getting older and yes I can say a bit wiser, I am in a very content position in my life.

I have a lot to learn but reading stories about women who take a chance for themselves to better their lives and the future generation is inspiring. It inspires me to do better.

We live in a world where women are constantly judged. More frequently I've noticed women judging women. I can honestly say, I hate it. I hate when women say "oh that girl isn't pretty", or "that women is like this etc." It's frankly disgusting. And I don't like it because I know there was a point when I was younger and would look at women and judge their beauty.

It was insecurities in myself. But now that I am growing up, I realize that women are so much more connected in ways we don't even care to realize.
It's so important for us to stick together instead of judge one another. Look at this article. It's women who came together and said "Yes! It's not always safe for us to go out, so let's do something about it to make it safe!"

Simply wonderful!



Monday, 21 November 2011

a thousand words.


The sky is the limit.  Laughter is precious and this picture is absolutely priceless.


The story behind this picture is about a young woman named Aasttha Khajuria. She decided she would leave her comfortable life in Edmonton and volunteer her summer educating young children in the slums of Mumbai. 
This story is not about what she taught when she was there but it's about how volunteering makes such a difference in an individuals life. Be it for a second, minute or lifetime- it makes a difference. The smile those children have on their faces is simply priceless. They appreciate the simplest moments. The moments of learning, laughing and loving.

Though Aasttha is back in Edmonton, she will never forget those moments she shared with those children. She will forever cherish her first time volunteering in a country she could call home and also take back what she learned and share it with everyone around her.
"The love I felt for those kids was something I never thought I was capable of feeling. These kids were so happy being who they are. They weren't jealous of anyone or anything," Aasttha said.

When I looked at this picture, all I did was smile. Aasttha has been my best friend for over 10 years and to see her go out and do her little part in trying to make a child smile who doesn't have the same privileges as we do, was so very precious. I feel in a world where everything is fast paced and we get caught up in the rat race, we never seem to take the time to appreciate what we have. We take in too much stress that only causes negativity. So instead of being negative in life; simply be positive. 

Take the time today and make someone smile. Be it for a minute, second or lifetime :)

Sunday, 13 November 2011

kissing.

Don't worry, this post is not about actually kissing. Though it would have been an interesting post. It's rather a song that got me through this weekend- filled with writing, writing and MORE writing.

Enjoy :)


Monday, 7 November 2011

Uptan- Natural Indian Beauty

When I was younger my mom would make a paste base for me and would tell me to put it on my entire body as it would exfoliate my skin. I finally found out what her secret was. It was called- Uptan.


Uptan is as follows:

whole wheat flour
sugar cane (sugar crystals)
turmeric
milk ( or you can use rose water)
sandlewood powder
 (Many people have different ways of mixing the paste together, but the main ingredients needed are turmeric, sandalwood powder, milk or rose water)


Step #1: Add Flour, Sugar and Turmeric

Step #2: Add Milk

MIX

MIX

MIX until it becomes like a paste

APPLY TO THE ENTIRE FACE AND BODY AS DESIRED 

In Indian weddings, it is common for the groom and bride to have a separate Uptan ceremony. It is said that Uptan cleanses the body and soul. It leaves the skin feeling cool and fresh.